Getting Started

What Your First Visit Will Look Like

The first appointment is
a conversation, not a commitment.

What Happens During the Visit

1. Listening First

Your history, concerns, and goals.


2. Reviewing Prior Testing

If available.


3. Initial Evaluation

Hormonal labs or imaging may be recommended.


4. Discussing Possible Paths

From natural approaches to advanced treatments.

What Should I Bring?

  • Prior fertility records

  • Medication list

  • Menstrual cycle information

  • Questions you want answered

Common Myths
Patients Worry About

  • Reality: Fertility care isn’t one-size-fits-all, and IVF is just one of many options. For some, it’s the right next step. For others, there are simpler, less invasive, and more cost-effective paths to explore first.

  • Reality: Age is one part of the picture—but it’s not the whole story.

    At San Román Fertility, we don’t believe in making decisions based on a number alone. Your fertility is influenced by many factors, including your overall health, hormone levels, medical history, and personal goals.

    While age can help guide conversations, it should never be used to pressure you into treatments that don’t feel right.

  • Reality: Fertility challenges are not a reflection of something you did, or didn’t do.

    It’s human to look for a reason, or to wonder if you could have done something differently. But in reality, fertility is complex. It’s shaped by biology, timing, and factors often completely outside of your control.

Financial Clarity

Before any treatment begins, we walk through expected costs, insurance coverage, and possible alternatives.

If This Is Your First Time Contacting a Fertility Clinic

Many patients feel uncertain about when to seek fertility care or what the first step should be.

You do not need to have all the answers before contacting us.

Our team can help guide you toward the next appropriate step.

Insurance & Financial Questions

Questions about insurance or treatment costs are common.

Our team can help explain coverage options and guide you toward resources that make planning easier.

Accessibility and Language Support

San Roman Fertility strives to provide care that is accessible and welcoming to all patients.

If you require language assistance or accommodations, please let our team know when scheduling your appointment.

Additional Assistance

Please get in touch with our office through the form below, or by phone: 631-500-2626

Please avoid sharing detailed medical information through this form. Our team will follow up with next steps.

Every fertility journey begins
with a conversation.

We’re here when you’re ready.